Sunday, July 5, 2009

my 19 yr.old sister jailed

yesterday was a disappointing day for me.
lets take this back to the beginning.

My sister is like my daughter i raised her and she is a great kid, very smart,creative, and stlyish.

I did everything that i could possible so she would never have to struggle. I tried to give her a stable home. a good fondation to live on and some morals. And at first she was no problem very quite,shy, and sensetitve little girl she was my snoop my partner in everything.As she got older her decisions were the wrong ones. she started getting in trouble with school and breaking the law. I always tried to talked to her show her that these things have a bad out come. I wanted her to be great at what ever she choose to do in life. learn from the people around you dont end up down that road. the present day my husband received a call from a datective saying that she need to be bailed out of jail. he called me and told me a wave of emotions came over me first thing i wanted to do was bail her out. I couldnt beleive it. and then it hit me jail maybe this is what will change her. tough love i dont know who it is tougher on me or her i love her to death and would never want to see anything happen to her. One thing is i always bailed her out of trouble. And this time i didnt.

this is so hard to deal with If any one has been in this situation before would love to hear from you.

i have to fill you guys in I had to do one of the hardest thing a parent had to do i had to kick her out of my home because of the decisions that she was making. she was sneaking people into my home while we were sleeping. keep in mind that this house has 4 little children in it ranging from 5 to 1 yrs. her neices and nephew. she was sneaking out living our doors open having sexual incounters with strangers while her niece is sleeping in the other room that usualy sleeps with her. not going to school not helping around the house. while me and husband both work full time jobs. some of the things were crazy smoking weed and drinking. with what money no clue bad chose in friends. someone is old enough to buy them liquor. And my husband couldn't take it once he caught her having sex with some boy in our home with the back door unlocked to the house. in the middle of the night with all these things going on not one time did she have remorse or a care about anything. so she had to leave a home that took care of her. All i asked from her was to clean up her bathroom, room , her hallway, and wash the dishes and the most important go to school everything else we will take care of it. we payed her for house work that she did we were preparing for her to go to college this sept. cutting back to afford the college accesories that she would need. Did we asked for to much or not enough? we barely ever went out and if we did the kids would be sleeping. sorry have to cut this is way to long will go to court on monday to see what now.

the forth of july

great day on the forth went out with husband went to the billards play some pool. then went to the movies to see transformers went to sleep during the movie funny i always end up falling asleep.
Does anybody else do this ?

Thursday, July 2, 2009

first day of kindergarten

I can't wait to wave my baby off on the school bus for her first day of school.
there is alittle piece inside me that wishes that she could stay home and never go to school.
It seems like once they go they come back a different child no longer your baby.
does anybody else feel that way?
what can i do to make the transition for me?and her?
she has 3 younger siblings and they act as if they can't do anything without her.
daycare will be hecktic without her seggestions please.

products for twins

man i was just thinking my baby girls are turning two and what i can do to make there birthday special.
tons of things run through my mind.l
does anybody have any ideas?

Monday, June 29, 2009

celebrity gossip

Was jayz the reason chris brown didn't perform last night?
of course not after this incident the execs have a very good reason to let this young man not perform.
once you plead guilty to a crime like that you are what GUILTY.
chrissy poo you will defiantly lose some indorsments and so respect.
He is crazy to think that everyone would think that it was ok to do this to your woman.
No son and someone should sit him down and have a long talk to him.
Someone should talk to her about the situation.
I believe noone knows what really want down in that car we don't.
so keep that in mind that these are to very young people mixed in a very high stressed career. tring to be normal as possible. the truth is that god sees all things. not humans

funnys for the day

BET awards 09

first who watched it?
I didnt catch all of it but i heard mixed reviews.
jamie fox hosted so it at least was funny.
the many tributes to MJ were of course the main part of the show.
who had the best performance?