talkingabouteverything

my 19 yr.old sister jailed

2009-07-05T10:17:00.000-07:00

yesterday was a disappointing day for me.
lets take this back to the beginning.

My sister is like my daughter i raised her and she is a great kid, very smart,creative, and stlyish.

I did everything that i could possible so she would never have to struggle. I tried to give her a stable home. a good fondation to live on and some morals. And at first she was no problem very quite,shy, and sensetitve little girl she was my snoop my partner in everything.As she got older her decisions were the wrong ones. she started getting in trouble with school and breaking the law. I always tried to talked to her show her that these things have a bad out come. I wanted her to be great at what ever she choose to do in life. learn from the people around you dont end up down that road. the present day my husband received a call from a datective saying that she need to be bailed out of jail. he called me and told me a wave of emotions came over me first thing i wanted to do was bail her out. I couldnt beleive it. and then it hit me jail maybe this is what will change her. tough love i dont know who it is tougher on me or her i love her to death and would never want to see anything happen to her. One thing is i always bailed her out of trouble. And this time i didnt.

this is so hard to deal with If any one has been in this situation before would love to hear from you.

i have to fill you guys in I had to do one of the hardest thing a parent had to do i had to kick her out of my home because of the decisions that she was making. she was sneaking people into my home while we were sleeping. keep in mind that this house has 4 little children in it ranging from 5 to 1 yrs. her neices and nephew. she was sneaking out living our doors open having sexual incounters with strangers while her niece is sleeping in the other room that usualy sleeps with her. not going to school not helping around the house. while me and husband both work full time jobs. some of the things were crazy smoking weed and drinking. with what money no clue bad chose in friends. someone is old enough to buy them liquor. And my husband couldn't take it once he caught her having sex with some boy in our home with the back door unlocked to the house. in the middle of the night with all these things going on not one time did she have remorse or a care about anything. so she had to leave a home that took care of her. All i asked from her was to clean up her bathroom, room , her hallway, and wash the dishes and the most important go to school everything else we will take care of it. we payed her for house work that she did we were preparing for her to go to college this sept. cutting back to afford the college accesories that she would need. Did we asked for to much or not enough? we barely ever went out and if we did the kids would be sleeping. sorry have to cut this is way to long will go to court on monday to see what now.

the forth of july

2009-07-05T09:50:00.000-07:00

great day on the forth went out with husband went to the billards play some pool. then went to the movies to see transformers went to sleep during the movie funny i always end up falling asleep.
Does anybody else do this ?

first day of kindergarten

2009-07-02T17:22:00.000-07:00

I can't wait to wave my baby off on the school bus for her first day of school.
there is alittle piece inside me that wishes that she could stay home and never go to school.
It seems like once they go they come back a different child no longer your baby.
does anybody else feel that way?
what can i do to make the transition for me?and her?
she has 3 younger siblings and they act as if they can't do anything without her.
daycare will be hecktic without her seggestions please.

products for twins

2009-07-02T17:19:00.000-07:00

man i was just thinking my baby girls are turning two and what i can do to make there birthday special.
tons of things run through my mind.l
does anybody have any ideas?

celebrity gossip

2009-06-29T10:40:00.000-07:00

Was jayz the reason chris brown didn't perform last night?
of course not after this incident the execs have a very good reason to let this young man not perform.
once you plead guilty to a crime like that you are what GUILTY.
chrissy poo you will defiantly lose some indorsments and so respect.
He is crazy to think that everyone would think that it was ok to do this to your woman.
No son and someone should sit him down and have a long talk to him.
Someone should talk to her about the situation.
I believe noone knows what really want down in that car we don't.
so keep that in mind that these are to very young people mixed in a very high stressed career. tring to be normal as possible. the truth is that god sees all things. not humans

funnys for the day

2009-06-29T08:40:00.000-07:00

BET awards 09

2009-06-29T07:57:00.000-07:00

first who watched it?
I didnt catch all of it but i heard mixed reviews.
jamie fox hosted so it at least was funny.
the many tributes to MJ were of course the main part of the show.
who had the best performance?

2009-06-28T06:25:00.005-07:00

est in peace mj

2009-06-28T06:25:00.003-07:00

uld wake up everyday as if it was the last.spend time witrh your peoples because oneday you will wake up and they will be gone enjoy today everyone and r

2009-06-28T06:25:00.001-07:00

God morning everyone took the day off from carsales to goto the hall and fellowship with the man upstairs and spend time with the family too everyone sho

michael jackson

2009-06-26T06:41:00.000-07:00

OMG!

the late mike great artist with a trouble background.
people forget we help create the person that he had become. in this i mean that we made it seem as if he wasnt even human. this man/child had noone to talk to had no one to relate to because of media and fans. this was a lonely man/child when in all honestly he just wanted to enjoy life and in all its aspects. he had children because he probably relized that adults have other motives. so have a person to hang out with it had to be his own children. His kids have to be devistated they have lost a best friend. the one and only person that they could trust. everyone wishes that mike was there father just imagine all the cool things these kids got to do.reality is that now those days are over for them they will be taken out of what they thought was normal and relize that there father was dipecated to be non human. what will happen to the kids in the next couple of years.
LETS TALK PEOPLE

funnys for the day

2009-06-25T13:46:00.001-07:00

this cartoon is very funny in its own little way.

read it and give me your comments.

2009-06-25T12:57:00.001-07:00

So my wedding aniversary is coming up on the 29 and I have no clue what I should get for my husband

funny for the day

2009-06-25T12:43:00.000-07:00

this cartoon is funny read and give me your comment

2009-06-25T12:37:00.005-07:00

My kids always have to use the bathroom when they come visit me. I don't mind them using this one

2009-06-25T12:37:00.003-07:00

mens bathroom always smells good and is always clean my kids

2009-06-25T12:37:00.001-07:00

I work in quincy and I work with nothing but guys. Boy it can be abit anoyying. There is one good thing about it is I don't share the bathroom. So the wo

2009-06-25T12:34:00.001-07:00

Today was a crazy day my car I just bought. Someone just smashed into it so now I have to put it into the shop and back into a rental

farrah fawcett

2009-06-25T12:17:00.000-07:00

died today what a shame she died so young. what she died from anal cancer which all kinds of things came to mind.
sorry guys im sure im not the only one that has been thinking.
it is a horrible, painful, and far beyond our thoughts on this matter. my heart goes out to her crazy son and partner.

quirk mitsubishi/mazda go to girl for the cash for clunkers

2009-06-24T12:30:00.000-07:00

ask me about this new win win situation

ask me about how you can now afford a new car

queston of the day

2009-06-24T11:59:00.000-07:00

If you could do something sexy for your mate what would it be?

nuclear north korea

2009-06-24T11:50:00.000-07:00

Americans are we scared?
HELL YEAH
they have already kicked our butts in the past do not forget these are the same asians that go to school all year round train to be the best are super smart the most healthiest people and very well coordinated. round two veitnam war II
we can not let this happen again they well do ten times worse damage this time around it will make it to the states.

perez hilton fights will i am

2009-06-24T11:46:00.000-07:00

what in the helibit happened on this night?
who hit perez hilton?
did he get hit?
did will i am just calmly speak to hilton?
what do you think!
I think everyone is stretching the truth in this senerio

iran protesters

2009-06-24T11:40:00.000-07:00

What in the world do these people think. have mercy on the human race we can not govern ourselves. look at what this country is doing to there protesters. what is even more redicalous about it is every country does these things just they dont get exposed like iran does. every country has a group of people that they are rude too.So not one of them can say anything a famous quote "in order to change the world you must change yourself" maybe some should tell this to the UN because they seem to think that they can change eveyone esle except themselves. go figure

jon and kate

2009-06-24T11:31:00.000-07:00

What is going on about these two. how can you be married for ten years been through invetro have 8 kids. then call it quits is it money is it media is it emotions is it i dont even know. something has got to give maybe they should cut the cameras off and focus on their family for awhile. obviously the cameras have gotten in the way. But we do have to keep in mind that they are human too and they may have other things in mind now that they have money. money is not the root to evil it is the people who have it. thats way if you are in a relationship with someone and they are controlling dont think that money want just make it worse people who are stressed well just find something esle to be stressed about, people who are miserable will defiantly still be miserable.